About 5 years ago, I was not loving my post-partum “mom bod” but didn’t know how to get back into a healthy eating and workout routine without going to a gym. As a mom of youngins, I didn’t have time to drive to a gym, workout, and drive home. Enter Beachbody.
Beachbody promises results with workouts you can do from home, eating plans, and a group of people who will support you and hold you accountable along the way.
I started with Autumn Calabrese’s 21-Day Fix program. Back then, you bought the DVDs for each program. In 21-Day Fix, Autumn says something like, “Give me 21 days and I’ll give you the body you’ve always wanted.” While this is obviously a unrealistic, I was hopeful that if I put in the work, I’d see results.
I followed the 21-Day Fix workout plan and food containers. I went through the program about 5 times before buying my next set of DVDs. But I loved the camaraderie, the changes I felt in my body, and the hope that Beachbody gave me.
I started dreaming sharing that hope with others. Friends, family, strangers, it didn’t matter, I was excited! So I signed up as a coach.
I did not realize what I was getting myself into.
Coaches will tell you how you can do it in a few hours a day. How if you’re working out and posting, you’re already basically doing the job of a coach. Yeah… not really.
What I wish I knew before signing up as a Beachbody coach:
- Your coach discount on Beachbody products basically just pays for shipping because shipping is NEVER free.
- You pay a monthly ~$16 fee for the back-end coach online “office.” If you’re military, it’s free.
- There are already very well-established coaches, making six or seven figures a year. This is not typical for most coaches.
- Your advancement in Beachbody is based on recruiting more coaches and them recruiting more. Yes, creating a pyramid. No matter how many participants you get, if they aren’t coaches who also get coaches, you won’t grow in your “rank.”
- If you don’t sell enough each month, you don’t get the monthly prizes, the higher status, or the higher pay rate.
- Their online support is all out of the country. I started using only live chat so I knew what they were saying and then got a transcript so I had proof when they messed up my order or monthly points.
I was never in it for the money. I honestly just wanted to share these amazing workout programs and knowledge, but there was pressure to do more and sell to grow rank and earn more money.
There were always success stories of coaches with full-time jobs that run their business in just 2 extra hours a day. Coaches who were thousands of dollars in debt when joining and now are debt free. Moms who were coaches only while their babies slept. Coaches who quit their full-time job or their partner retired because they made enough money for two people.
But these are a small percentage of coaches. When you hear success stories daily, it’s easy to forget this.
It didn’t all involve money. Other inspiring stories of body transformations or coaches who’ve “found their tribe” and have all of these friends from across the country who they’ve met through Beachbody.
Health. Great body. Extra income doing what you’re already doing. Helping others get healthy. Have fun and make lifelong friends.
It all sounds great, doesn’t it?
Honestly, at the beginning, I really loved being a Beachbody coach.
Why I loved Beachbody:
- I reconnected with old friends and family, while meeting new friends — all likeminded people, who want to get healthy.
- The Beachbody on Demand (BODi) programs are awesome and there are so many!
- I felt more in control of my eating. Knowledge is power.
- I was able to get in good workouts from home.
- Beachbody encourages coaches to do personal development daily. I learned so much and my mindset started to change.
- I learned new tools like canva, Facebook ads, Hootsuite, and more. I had my own Facebook page!
- I fell in love with PiYo and even got certified to be a PiYo instructor (if I ever wanted to).
- I could do everything from home on my own timelines.
Notice that everything above was something I could do without being a coach.
At the beginning, I was eager to spread the love and even earned a free ticket to their annual conference! Beachbody conference was a whirlwind but an amazing experience.
But now instead of working out and posting in my groups, I was spending hours extra throughout the day, every day on coaching. My extra time was gone.
Then one day, I realized I wasn’t actually coaching.
I’m cheering people on? Yes. Am I helping them choose the best BODi workout for them? Yes. Am I instructing them or actually “coaching” in any way? Absolutely not.
A friend came to me with a real health issue, and I had no clue what to do. I’m not a doctor or certified as a health instructor. I felt awful and like a liar.
Then, talking about feeling like a liar…
I was on a call where someone talked about how you are your brand. Your photos, your story and your journey are why people join your groups. However, by that time, my health was significantly on the back burner. I had gained weight, was getting little sleep, and had no life outside of work, my kids and Beachbody. I felt awful and looked awful; my body even was breaking out into hives due to significant stress and little rest.
How was I supposed to tell others I was healthy and happy when I was frazzled, tired, sick and stressed to the max? I didn’t want to be fake.
I started to realize that while some people could do it all, I could not.
Reasons that Beachbody coaching was no longer for me
If you’re still reading this, then my guess is you’re also a Beachbody coach thinking about quitting (or you’re a family member… hi mom!). I watched YouTube videos and read blogs about why others quit to find motivation, but they were always focused on the money, which isn’t my story.
In the end, these were the reasons that Beachbody coaching wasn’t for me:
- The joy of coaching was overshadowed by the sales.
- I would reach out to people to say “hi” and felt them immediately getting nervous I was going to be an icky sales pitch.
- I learned the term “MLM” and the negativity that went along with it.
- I was tired of taking extra time to do anything because I had to stop and take photos for social media first.
- I was never “present” anymore; I was always on my phone.
- My lack of sleep caught up with me. I was staying up until 1 and 2 a.m. to respond to people, “like” posts, and schedule my posts for the next day. I got maybe 4-5 hours of sleep.
- I was on social media all the time. It was no longer fun for me, but work.
- I felt the pressure to share my life on social media daily to stay in front of people. But, I didn’t want to post about my kids and they’re a huge part of my life.
- I drank Shakeology daily for months and then my body started rejecting it and had to stop. How can I tell people to drink it when I couldn’t?
- I had zero downtime. I was always thinking of my next post, replying, “liking,” etc.
- I had to figure it all out myself. Nobody was spoon-feeding me information, posts, “how-tos,” etc. I understand why but it’s a big learning curve that I didn’t have time for.
- Most of all, I realized I was no longer focused on my health journey.
I had a third kid and stopped actively coaching although participated in the groups. Eventually, my annual Beachbody income became lower than what I was spending on Beachbody on Demand (BODi) plus the coach online office fee.
At that point, I finally quit.
It took me years to actually quit because I felt like people were counting on me. But ultimately, I needed to focus on my health, not theirs.
As you can see in my blogs, I still do BODi workouts and am a huge fan of Autumn Calabrese’s workouts. PiYo is still my go-to active rest day program. And I am forever grateful for what I’ve learned through portion fix and the personal development.
But now, I’m just a BODi user, and I’m OK with that.
Are you a coach or former Beachbody coach? I’d love to hear if any of the above spoke to you or about your experience. Or are you thinking about becoming a coach and have questions? Please, comment below!
Shana Brooks says
Oh my! A former coach and I were just speaking about all of this and the cult like following she is trying to get. I watch all my friends and teammates posts every day. They are all the same. Clearly following the checklist to success. No originality anywhere. I had more actual friends and family un follow me on social because it was the same stuff everyday. Like the movie Ground Hog Day!!
They say you already spend time scrolling on social so be a coach and use that time. I never ignored my family more than I did when I was coaching.
I have seen people make so much money and do well. But I have seen more try and quit.
I spent more money than I made!! Sad really.
I’m still a BODi member and love me some Amoila and Jenny Juacian. I have been doing this since about 2007. Love the platform don’t like the cult culture. I officially removed myself from out BOD group and Facebook group today. A new coach treated me like a newbie today and sadly I couldn’t stay quiet. I was quite the snot to her comment on my Pilates post. Had she not noticed I have been around the team for two years and absolutely loathe Autumn (sorry) but am doing 21 Day Fix Extreme with another coach on the team who didn’t want to go it alone and I had 21 days to go before a cruise. So it made sense. And she was like good for you for starting to put you first and try something new!!! First off, not starting and I have done 21 day Fix at least once a year since it came out on DVD…put glad I could get you a check mark!! Maybe our fierce leader should tell them what coaches just quit but are still in the group!!!
Oh well, coaching and having to cyber stock new people was creepy and not for me. I made some great friends on the coaching squad and that was enough for me. I love everyday and if I don’t no one needs to know about.
Thank you for sharing and contributing!!
Much love!!
Shana
Debbie says
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Shana. I hear you on the friends who post the same things every day. I really tried not to be that person and add value but it took work and creativity — I didn’t have the time for that! Agreed on knowing more people who try and quit, but that’s probably true of every business. I personally didn’t think of it as a business though before I signed up, I just wanted to help people! I wish I had known more about the realities of being a coach– hence the blog post.
I am glad I’m not alone in some of these feelings. It’s nice to hear. Best of luck to you! 🙂
Brooke says
I was a BB Coach years ago. I frankly didn’t know how to coach and my mindset was in the wrong place with all of it. Plus, my network was small. Looking back, I went about it all the wrong way for the wrong reasons.
Fast forward many years ahead, I am now a certified Coach and now have a real appreciation for those who know what they’re actually doing. Because real coaching can truly helps others succeed and reach their full potential….but it starts with the person on the other side. They need to want it and be at the right place in their change journey. If a Coach is unable to diagnose that, it can be disappointing journey.
I miss the community- BB, now Bodi, has an amazing community focused on health and fitness. It’s inspiring and motivating. And, they have changed where they’ve needed to change … meaning they are resilient and that’s important to remaining relevant.
We can all find the bad in anything. It’s what you make it, and it has to be with authentic purpose and heart, plus a strength of yours. Otherwise, you’re right- it’s a difficult uphill battle. Just like it would be with any other job!
Debbie says
Thanks for sharing your story! Yes! Absolutely makes sense to how I was feeling as a Beachbody coach– I wasn’t really a “coach” and it just didn’t feel right to say I was without being properly educated on how to help people. How incredible you’re a certified coach now who is helping people and changing lives. You are inspiring. Thank you for reading!
christine Henderson says
My feels on Coaching after being with BB since 2016 when I was at an all time low coming out of a toxic/ abusive marriage. BB was my savior and I really thought it could become a career but I eventually got sick of how much it took me away from my child and I eventually realized even though I was a die hard fan doing it as a job where I bug people was not for me. So, I decided to return to school and just focus on the workouts and myself not the coaching. I am a much happier person taking the business out of it!
Debbie says
Wow, good for you for finding such a positive way out of a difficult period in your life. I’m glad you found a path that makes you happy. Thank you for sharing your story and for reading! Hugs to you!